To see ourselves - as in truly see ourselves - recognise who we are, what we believe in, what we value and what our deepest desires are is not an easy task. Sometimes, by the very way we operate, we have spent most of lives looking to others to guide us, validate us and give us permission. I spent much of my life being externally referenced and unable or unsure of who I truly was or what I needed to be happy. But until you can find a way to see yourself, and show her to the world, you can not expect others to see you and know you.
We cannot truly love others until we learn to love ourselves.
Start with YOU. All my programs start with identity, self-awareness and radical responsibility. This is where your power lies.
I find the best way to work out what you need and if I'm for you is to have a chat with me, to work out where you are, where you'd like to be and which pathway will take you there. ...
Rise up ladies ... step into your power through the act of self-care.
Make space for yourself (so you know what you need), and ask yourself to prioritise what you need. Don’t steal from yourself… normalise saying the things we need to say to express that our needs are valid and worthy and that we need things to heal and be healthy and grow.
To really be able to tap into your magnificence in everything that you are, you need to get out from under the system which holds you down. And that is one which makes us busy all the time, and that is a system which makes us not care for ourselves so that we don’t feel as great as we can feel. And then we’re not actually able to go out into the world and do what it is that we need, with the energy that we need to do it. ...