From Kylie – Gap Year Graduate 2018:
đ MY GAP YEAR EXPERIENCE Â
“I love personal development and growth. And being spiritual. And I like to think that thereâs a connection to loved ones passed, which is why Iâve been to many mediums/psychics/clairvoyants in my life. Itâs my thing. And while I totally respect itâs not everyoneâs thing, I love that itâs mine. And why, coincidentally, I ended up in a cosy room meeting with a medium the day I finished Gap Year.
10 March 2018.
It was all taped. Iâve gone back and listened to it so I can write this for Fleur but I promise you itâs verbatim. But bullet pointed because I donât want to bore you.
First thing she said, I kid you not:
⢠Spirits are very excited for you. They want to throw streamers and balloons at you to celebrate. But itâs not like a birthday or an anniversary â itâs more like the choices you are going to make or have made. Youâre choosing to step up â stand up and step up and take on the world. Itâs like youâve been resisting trusting yourself and theyâre saying âwhat are you waiting for?â
⢠Feels like youâve been in a backward cycle and this year youâre going to break free of crap thatâs been holding you back or holding you down.
⢠Itâs a lot of growth that youâve been doing. Itâs like âfuck it allâ â go and take charge.
Yep, that was how it opened. The day I finished Gap Year. All full of growth and wonder at my light bulb moments during Gap and then spirits wanting to celebrate with me! Oh yeahâŚ
⢠She briefly touched on my future partner but didnât go into much depth. When she asked if I had any questions I asked if âdreamboatâ (my name for the dream guy) was someone I already knew (because Iâd said goodbye to someone before Gap Year and wellâŚ.just wanted to double check!). âThey say noâ is what she came back with. You had an amazing connection with him, but he didnât have it with your boys. There were barriers. Yep, there were.
⢠Then she goes âWhoa. Ok. Your future husbandâs grandfather is in the room.â I mean, WTF. Iâm all into spirit and things, but even I thought it was a stretch, despite the goose bumps that covered me from head to toe.
⢠Dreamboatâs grandfather (through her) then says âwelcome to the family, weâve been waiting for you and I couldnât want a better woman for my grandson.â HOLY FUCK.
⢠Then she describes dreamboat. And I swear to god, she basically checks off âthe listâ I made during Gap Year. The comprehensive one. Like 20 of the 30 things. And weird ass things tooâŚ!
⢠I momentarily freak out at the mention of 2 kidsâŚthen pull myself back together.
⢠Thereâs moreâŚmoving in together within 18 months and a weddingâŚbut Iâll leave it there.
So, Gap Year. Worth every hard look at myself, every tear that I cried discovering my truth and every hard conversation I had before, during and after I started and finished it. And all I can say is thank you Fleur. For being the amazing person you are, for completing this journey yourself and for sharing it with the rest of the world. You truly are a remarkable person and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Hereâs to 2018 and meeting dreamboat. Iâll keep you posted!”