Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable

The 8 week Incubator is the first and best place to start working with me.

When I became a life coach (and did personal, relationship and business coaching) I worked with lots of people and realised that many of them were searching for something. They came to work with me on the pretext of relationship (turmoil) or career (slumps) or life (unhappiness) but really they all wanted something, that at first I didn’t realise was what I had always wanted and searched for.

Meaning. Purpose. The point.

That for me I was worried that maybe it all meant nothing. And then what would I do?

I was also always good at being incredibly busy. But not always doing the right stuff. The stuff that made my heart and soul sing. The stuff that helped other people find their purpose or gift or magic in the world, so they could do more of that and their hearts and souls could sing too.

So. I decided to focus on purpose. Or magic. Or whatever it is you want to call it. For the people who want more, but have just never been able to find the time or the focus to put their finger on what exactly that is, or how exactly they can do it. I’m down with saying purpose coach. Not sure I can call myself a magic coach yet. But we’ll just go with it.

So what do I do? Coach people to find their purpose and craft it into something woven from all the things they ALREADY KNOW that lives inside them. If it’s a business we’ll craft a business. If it’s writing we’ll craft a way to get the book out. If it’s confidence we’ll find it or at the very least we’ll blow up all the bullshit that stops you having it. That kind of stuff.

I created this amazing program called the 8 week Incubator so you get to do it with me and other people because I also believe we need other people. It’s about incubating people with purpose. There’s some one-on-one coaching with me in there but also group stuff and everything else in-between. The weaving together of all the things I learnt to do with people in life coaching and life and crafting people with purpose.

And you know what? The best way for me to explain it is to talk to you about what it is you want. And we’ll easily be able to figure out if what I do fits with what you want. And if you and I are a good fit. I won’t offer it to you otherwise. It’s a high-value program (which means that you invest well and you get delivered my best value work) but when I just say the price without a conversation it’s hard to know how to apply that value to your own situation. So if it sounds like something you might like to do, let have a conversation. No pressure. No hard sales.

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The Incubator is an epic 8 week online group program.

Each week on Monday you are delivered a module of content via email, with audio links, activities to read and do. You can work through the module in your own time, and then attend a weekly live 2 hour Q&A where you can ask anything about anything to do with the module, and have access to me and the rest of the group. You get 2 1:1s with me as we go and the need arises.

They are all the PRACTICAL DETAILS. The rest (which is all the really good and magical stuff) just unfolds as we go. Outcomes vary. It really depends on what you want.

But if you put in the time, the focus and the energy anything is possible.

The group stuff initially makes some people want to throw up and hide behind the couch, but this is where the magic truly happens.

This happened recently in one of my Incubator Flocks:

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I got to call up my buddy for the first time. She actually only lives about 100 kms away. We got talking about her kids, my kids, her parents, my parents. And I said “Yeh, my dad is one of 14 kids!” and she said “NO WAY! My dad is one of 14 kids!!”. “How cool is that?" I said, “My poor grandmother had 11 boys and three girls". The phone went silent for a minute and from the other end of the phone my buddy said quietly “So did mine”.

So crazy #nosuchthingascoincidence things happen in the Incubator Group, but also it is a place where the Flock can share their fear, their anger, their stories and of course that is what makes the learning, the experience, the incubation so real. Coz you’ve got an inbuilt support system to help you when you are feeling vulnerable and these special angels like chooks know exactly what you are going through. It’s like being shut in a rehab clinic for eight weeks without the bad food and uncomfortable beds!

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I recently completed Fleur's I N C U B A T O R course… 8 weeks of foundational studies in business. What I thought was going to be practical lessons on starting a business ended up being very practical lessons on how to get yourself ready to release what your heart and soul already knew you had in you... to gain clarity as to why and who you want to give to, to learn how to fight resistance that always comes at us all, to recognise the roadblocks we (often subconsciously) put in our own way. When I say foundational studies... I mean the core essential things you need to get clear before getting a business started or creating the life you want.
This course came to me in a time I needed it most and has been so life changing I can't even use words to explain....

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I had been wanting to do Fleur’s Incubator for such a long time but the planets never aligned or maybe I never believed I was worth the investment … until I did, and my life changed to match the commitment in myself really quickly. I was lucky that I knew my purpose and what I wanted to do, but what I was quick to realise is that I still didn't know myself as well as I thought.
Working with Fleur has cemented an unwavering amount of self-confidence and self-belief in my gifts and the impact they will have … I am seeing a value in myself that I have been searching for my whole life and feel more home and myself than I ever have before.
Fleur has helped me connect with something bigger than me and it feels precious and fulfilling - just like I imagine magic does!

Jarna Saunders, Life Coach (Daya Clarity) and Mumma
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Not a week goes by where I don't think about the lessons I learnt from you. I have noticed such a shift in how I feel and my outlook on life. Just last night I turned to my husband and asked him if he had noticed a difference in me too - he had! I don't think I could point the finger at one particular thing that was making me miserable. But looking back now a lot of it was due to the fact that I didn't listen to me, I had lost who I was (had I ever really met her?).
Thank you for helping me realise my happiness lies in ME. I am still discovering who I am and with every passing week I am feeling more at ease with my life and who I am becoming.
I am no longer searching for things to fill my life with, for now I am happy being here, just how I am. You have taught me that creativity is worthy of my time. I don't feel guilty for creating and just taking time to be.

Aimee, Teacher & Mum
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Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly is the 8 week Incubator?

Basically it’s an 8 week online program.

Each week on Monday you are delivered a module of content via email, with audio links, activities to read and do.

Module 1 – Identity, your gifts
Module 2 – Blocks, excuses, boundaries
Module 3 – Your why, your purpose, what you have to offer
Module 4 – Commitment & taking action
Module 5 – Worth, value, money
Module 6 – Finding your people – support system, team & marketing
Module 7 – Systems, strategies and tools for productivity & Feminine Power
Module 8 – Bringing it altogether, creating a Biznest/Lifenest Manifesto

You get a 1:1 with me on the phone/FTF before we begin and a heap of pre-work to set up space and time to really commit in the 8 weeks.

We have weekly 2 hour LIVE Q&A webinars and 2 x 1 hour 1:1s with me during the 8 weeks, scheduled in by you when you need them.

And we have a (secret) FB group so you can be connected with the community of other people going through the course, but in the privacy of the small group.

Time-wise you will need 2-4 hours per week to work on the content ( this can be done anytime once you have the module) and 2 hours to attend the Q&A via webinar or 2 hours to listen to the recording if you can’t make it on. I’d suggest be there though. It’s where you get to learn so much from outside your own head (where is usually the place we create the problem with to start with).

How much does it cost? Are there payment options?

I don’t talk about the investment online, because if it’s not for you, it’s just not for you and it’s really hard to work that out from reading an outline and trying to apply it to where you are.

The best way for me to explain it is to talk to you about what it is you want. And we’ll easily be able to figure out if what I do fits with what you want. And if you and I are a good fit.

I won’t offer it to you otherwise. If I don’t think it’s what you need, or we don’t fit, or I think there’s someone who can serve you better than I can I will let you know.

It’s a high value program (which means that you invest well and you get delivered my best value work) but when I just say the price without a conversation it’s hard to know how to apply that value to your own situation.

So if it sounds like something you might like to do, let’s have a conversation. No pressure. No hard sales.

Once you do commit, you can pay via direct deposit or credit card.

Payment plans available on request, but all payment must be finalised before the commencement of the course.

You can claim the Incubator as business coaching/training if you have a business.

How many other people do the Incubator with me? Will it be confidential?

I work with a nurturing model, so unlike many online programs I’m into intimacy (in a cool and not creepy way!) and support. Any group program has a maximum of 12 people, but usually averages out at about 8. That way there’s time for everyone, but a beautiful opportunity for connection, and the energy required to keep everyone on track.

The Facebook group is secret which means anything you or I post in there is visible ONLY to the members of your Flock and NO-ONE ELSE. The choice to share or not to share is yours to make, and the space is completely confidential – whatever happens in the Flock stays in the Flock unless you’ve OK’d me or someone else to share.

We have a 1:1 before you start and 2 1:1s as you go, so if you have something you’d like only me to be privy to then this is the space to share this.

When does it run? How much time will it take? What about my other commitments?

The next incubator dates are planned for:

  • February 2020
  • May 2020
  • August 2020
  • October 2020

Please contact me for more information.

What resources will I need to complete it?

You will need access to a computer, internet & email address for the content. You can print out or download things, or complete them on your computer.

The Q&A is run online and works best if you can log on via your computer with a webcam and audio so we can all see and hear you. You need reasonable internet connection for this. Alternatively you can call in on a phone, so you can still hear us and we can hear you.

I recommend you buy a big A4 journal for the work. Something a bit beautiful, but simple.

Do I need to have a business or want to to start a business to do this?

No you don’t have to have or want a business to do this.

Incubating is about purpose.

Some people have no idea (consciously) what their purpose is. The Incubator is a pathway to finding this out.

Some people once they figure this out realise they need some time to integrate this, and work out how to apply this into having a more meaningful and purposeful life in their existing situation (life, job/career)

Some people know their purpose, but want to work out how to craft it into a business.

Some people know their purpose but don’t know what they want to do with that.

Some people have a business already but they want to make it more purposeful.

If you fit into any of these categories, the Incubator could be for you.