Don’t settle, petal.
The easiest way to get stuck where you are is to make it OK. OK is fine if it works for you, but mostly OK doesn’t work. Not long term.
Long term OK breeds resentment. Long term OK is an energy stealer and a mojo thief. Long term OK is where depression gets a foothold, and/or anxiety starts calling. Long term OK is not what you were put here to do.
Getting out of the settling pattern requires bold action. It generally feels uncomfortable. Settling is right in middle of comfort zone central. Which on the surface seems comfortable, but in the end is like being drowned (smuffocated) by the stuffing of 1000 pillows. Which is horrible right?
Initially you’ll need bold action. Long term you’ll need to keep showing up. But none of this will require you to hustle any more that you’ve already been hustling to make all the not-OK things OK. Do you know how much work that is?
If you’re sick of being busy and exhausted and overwhelmed and drowning then we should talk. If OK is not-OK with you we should make time short-term, to change things long term.
Have a cuppa with me.
Make a tea. Take an hour.
Get strategic and purposeful about the life you actually want to be living.
PS What happens when you get out from under the OK. Pic byTim Stief on Unsplash
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